dearcoquette:

My boyfriend says he loves me, but only wants to see me like once or twice (max) a week. We both have shit going on in our lives, so sometimes this just ends up being status quo, but it hurts me when he passes on proposed plans because we’d seen each other the day or two before. Am I being too…

"For most of life, nothing wonderful happens. If you don’t enjoy getting up and working and finishing your work and sitting down to a meal with family or friends, then the chances are that you’re not going to be very happy. If someone bases his happiness or unhappiness on major events like a great new job, huge amounts of money, a flawlessly happy marriage or a trip to Paris, that person isn’t going to be happy much of the time. If, on the other hand, happiness depends on a good breakfast, flowers in the yard, a drink or a nap, then we are more likely to live with quite a bit of happiness."

— Andy Rooney

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pa-s-sion:

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initial outbreak questions

dxglitter:

hs-harpy:

Hey herpblr!

I’m almost through my week-long antiviral meds for my first genital HSV-1 outbreak, but I’m not seeing much improvement. I know various internet sources say that initial outbreaks can last for three weeks or more, but it’d be really helpful to hear first-hand experiences. I have to fly out to California to dog sit for my cousin in two days, and I’m not sure if I should call my doctor to get another antiviral prescription or at least a topical numbing agent so that I can get around without walking around like an injured turtle. Would any of you be willing to share your first-outbreak experiences to help give me a better idea of what I should expect in the coming weeks?

Hi! My first outbreak was balls. The anti-virals helped, but they took a while to kick in. If you’re out of town, it’s not a terrible idea to have your script refilled, just in case, even if you don’t end up using it. Ice is good for itchies. OTC pain meds are actually pretty useful.

Who else has pointers?

A topical numbing agent sounds great and I wish I’d had one. My Dr wrote me a script for Vicodin, which unfortunately just makes me feel horribly hungover, but maybe you could get something strong too. I wound up just alternating between naproxin and acetaminophen every few hours (they’re in different pain med groups apparently so you can take the full dosage of each every day without killing your liver - but still talk your pharmacist/doctor before doing so because I am not any sort of medical professional). Definitely continue the antivirals! I didn’t get my script for Valtrex until I was already sort of far along in my outbreak, so it took a while to start working. Pee in the shower when you can. Godspeed.

"Nelda didn’t know of anyone else turning thirty who’d never kissed a man. Her sister Maria said women who never made out with anyone were prone to a nervous condition in their old age. To save Nelda from this fate, Maria had begun scouring the personal ads each Sunday in La Estrella to find someone for Nelda to date. It was 1979, six years into the Pinochet dictatorship, and Maria assured Nelda that the newspapers reported nothing but good news now. Nothing was going wrong in the country anymore. It was an ideal time to find someone through the paper."

The Man from the Ad by Idra Novey - Guernica / A Magazine of Art & Politics (via guernicamag)

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A few months ago I bought this dress in a black check pattern and it is basically my favorite summer dress in the whole world. It’s cute and comfortable, it breathes in the hot weather, and it will work perfectly year round with some tights and a sweater. So of course I had been considering getting another one in a different color/pattern. Today I looked on the website and it had been discounted to $7!!!! I am buying one in each remaining color. DAY MADE

A few months ago I bought this dress in a black check pattern and it is basically my favorite summer dress in the whole world. It’s cute and comfortable, it breathes in the hot weather, and it will work perfectly year round with some tights and a sweater. So of course I had been considering getting another one in a different color/pattern. Today I looked on the website and it had been discounted to $7!!!! I am buying one in each remaining color. DAY MADE

humansofnewyork:

"I’m a traffic cop. It’s a job. Somebody’s got to do it. I don’t even represent myself when I’m working. If I was representing myself, I’d let everyone off with a warning. I represent a system. Did I design the system? No. I just enforce it. It’s not for me to decide the system. We elect the people who decide the system. When I write a ticket, everyone tells me a reason that they don’t deserve it. If I gave a warning to everyone with a reason, I wouldn’t give any tickets, and the system wouldn’t work. I don’t get any joy by giving a ticket. And I’m not upset if you beat it in court. It’s not personal. It’s my job."

Um, heyyy

humansofnewyork:

"I’m a traffic cop. It’s a job. Somebody’s got to do it. I don’t even represent myself when I’m working. If I was representing myself, I’d let everyone off with a warning. I represent a system. Did I design the system? No. I just enforce it. It’s not for me to decide the system. We elect the people who decide the system. When I write a ticket, everyone tells me a reason that they don’t deserve it. If I gave a warning to everyone with a reason, I wouldn’t give any tickets, and the system wouldn’t work. I don’t get any joy by giving a ticket. And I’m not upset if you beat it in court. It’s not personal. It’s my job."

Um, heyyy

PS this is the best drugstore self tanner.

PS this is the best drugstore self tanner.

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This is really significant to my interests.

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